Hate Me Now, Thank Me Later | Song of Solomon 8 | Pastors Levi and Jennie Lusko
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In this final message from Love Is In The Air, Pastors Levi and Jennie Lusko close Song of Solomon with four marks of a relationship that can go the distance: unity, longevity, strategy, and history. This message is a call to let God shape your imagination for love, sex, marriage, and legacy and to keep the name of Jesus lifted over your home. This message will help you: – understand why unity has to be protected over time – recognize the importance of right choices and right voices see why purity requires strategy, not just good intentions – speak the name of Jesus over your home, future, and family IN THIS MESSAGE: 00:00 - The wrong question about sex 02:20 - The secret to long-term pleasure 04:55 - Introduction to Song of Solomon 8 05:22 - Unity: Walking together vs. drifting apart 06:55 - The power of inside jokes and shared history 08:20 - Guarding against the "natural drift" in marriage 09:23 - Longevity: The recipe for a "Bride or Die" vow 10:55 - Burning the ships: Why there is no backup plan 12:20 - Suffering well: Building your marriage on the Rock 15:07 - Strategy: The blueprint for sexual purity) 18:22 - Choosing the right voices to guard your family 20:14 - A message of grace and redemption 22:23 - The result of godly choices 23:47 - History: Why you'll eventually thank your "strict" past 30:00 - Solomon’s biggest regret 32:30 - The "Red Cord" prayer for your home and family NEXT STEPS: Ask for prayer or connect with a pastor: https://freshlife.church/contact Register your decision to follow Jesus and receive free resources: https://freshlife.church/know-god Give a financial gift to support what God is doing as we take steps forward to see the Gospel reach far and wide: https://freshlife.church/give SUBSCRIBE: Sign up to receive encouragement straight to your inbox, and to stay up to date with announcements, events, and more: https://church.us13.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=6ea4d82b2567db3e86b7767cd&id=451f2fe63e Don’t miss a video! Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/freshlifechurch?sub_confirmation=1 CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Website: https://freshlife.church Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/freshlife Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/freshlifechurch Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/freshlife Youtube: https://youtube.com/c/freshlifechurch/ Fresh Life Church was pioneered by Pastors Levi and Jennie Lusko in 2007. We exist to see those stranded in sin find life and liberty in Jesus Christ. Today Fresh Life’s ministry impacts people with the radical, life-changing message of Jesus’ grace, spilling across Montana, Oregon, Utah, Wyoming, and Idaho… and beyond. #freshlife #freshlifechurch #levilusko #levi #lusko
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